FAQs

Didn’t you guys already get married?

Due to the pandemic we did in fact choose to elope and get legally married the same weekend as our original wedding. We promise we saved a sentimental ceremony and party for you as a guest though! Since we got married on October 2nd 2020 you can view this as a one year vow renewal if you choose to.

If you wish to see photos from that day we have set up a gallery of pictures here.

What’s the dress code?

Cocktail, Black Tie Optional, or Formal Attire Requested. We’d really love to see people dressed up and in their best. Please note that weather permitted ceremony and reception will be held outdoors.

As for footwear the ceremony will be on grass but the cocktail hour and reception will largely be on brick patio flooring so high heels sinking into grass should only be a concern getting to your seat for the ceremony.

Where can I find info regarding COVID info for this event?

You can find a link to COVID specific info at this link.

But, as discussed in the invite inserts sent:

1. We are requiring all guests, over the age of 12, to show proof upon arrival of full vaccination (two weeks after final dose of your vaccine) or a negative PCR test taken within 3 days of the event.

2. Our venue is requiring masks be worn when guests are not actively eating or drinking.

What’s the weather like in NC in October?

Oh if only we could know for sure! But average temperatures are highs in the mid to high 70s and lows in the 60s. If you are cold natured I’d advise bringing a sweater for the evening reception as temperatures in NC are prone to fluctuating quite a bit come nightfall.

What if the weather is very rainy and poor?

No fear the wedding will go on, it will just be indoors within a separate part of the museum. This will be determined morning of and you will still show up to the same location and follow any signs or directions placed at the venue.

What’s the parking situation?

There will be plenty of free parking at the parking lots at the venue. Never fear the museum is not in a downtown location but a bit north of Durham proper.

Will transportation be provided?

We do not intend to provide transportation. We advise the use of Uber and/or Lyft if you do not intend to use a personal/rental car for transportation.

Can I take photos and post them on social media?

You may take photos during the cocktail hour and reception ONLY. There will be a strict no photos/videos policy during the ceremony. We understand you want to have photos of this part of the wedding but we want our photographer and videographer to be able to take photos of us and of our guests without a sea of smart phones, tablets, and personal cameras in their way. There will be reminders before the ceremony and we truly trust our guests to respect this.

Will there be food?

We would never make you suffer through a party with no food! There will be a cocktail hour with passed appetizers, dinner, and some snacks post dinner. There will also be wine and beer provided.

I have an allergy/special diet/dietary restriction, will there be food for me?

As a family with a dietary restriction we totally understand! In fact this will be an egg free wedding so Chris can eat everything at this wedding, a first for him. There will be vegetarian and vegan options and we are working with our caterer to have all foods labeled with the common allergens.

Can I bring a date or plus one?

We have a strict guest list due to head count restraints and thus our wedding is strictly RSVP only. We will only be able to accommodate those listed on your invitation

Are kids welcome?

The ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception will be adults only. We will have on site child care at the venue but, similar to the above regarding plus ones, will only be providing child care for children listed on the invitations. Due to the number of out of state family we need to prioritize those families and again have to be strict due to space constraints for this service. Families receiving childcare will get separate information on details surrounding this service in separate communication.

What should I do if I can’t make it?

We will miss you so much but totally understand. If you cannot make it to the wedding just RSVP “no”, so we can plan accordingly.

I still have questions, what is the best way to contact you?

Feel free to call, text, social media message us any questions you have! Just not the week before the wedding please!